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Two ESFP cats The Sunny Sidekick

Same lean on all four dimensions.

ESFPThe Sunny Sidekick

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

Whoever is home, it heads for them, rubs against them and rolls onto its side. Any time is a good time for a familiar toy, and when it tires it sleeps in the sun next to someone. There is no telling when it will come looking for you.

Read the type guide · ESFP

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    ESFP
    Joins in
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESFP
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Same
    ESFP
    Stays close
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ESFP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

Two cats of the same type share one description, so on paper their habits match on every dimension. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Sunny Sidekick · Joining in
ESFP · Joins in Joining in

It sees you sit down on the floor and comes straight over, tail up.

They may turn up in the same room, or at the same door, at the same moment. Offer more than one place to settle near you, such as two perches or two spots on the sofa, so neither has to wait for the other to move.

New experiences

The Sunny Sidekick · Play now?
ESFP · Likes the familiar Play now?

The familiar ball is all it needs: it stretches out a paw and the game has started.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Closeness

The Sunny Sidekick · A cheerful nudge
ESFP · Stays close A cheerful nudge

It brushes its whole side along your leg in passing, then turns back to do it again.

They may want the same lap. Sit where there is room on both sides, give each cat some time with you on its own, and pause the petting now and then so either one can leave.

Daily rhythm

The Sunny Sidekick · A sunny nap next to someone
ESFP · Goes with the moment A sunny nap next to someone

It falls asleep on the big cushion next to whoever is on the sofa, at no particular time of day.

Play may start at any hour, and one cat’s burst of energy may land in the middle of the other’s nap. Keep food, water, litter and resting places steady even when the day is not, and set up a nap spot away from where they play.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works