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ESFP · INFP cat types The Sunny Sidekick and The Curtain Explorer

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ESFPThe Sunny Sidekick

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

Whoever is home, it heads for them, rubs against them and rolls onto its side. Any time is a good time for a familiar toy, and when it tires it sleeps in the sun next to someone. There is no telling when it will come looking for you.

Read the type guide · ESFP

INFPThe Curtain Explorer

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Stays close · Goes with the moment

It often hides behind the curtain and pops out when a paper bag rustles. After playing, it loops back to your legs, rubs against you once and wanders off again. When it sleeps and when it plays depends on the day.

Read the type guide · INFP

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Different
    ESFP
    Joins in
    INFP
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Different
    ESFP
    Likes the familiar
    INFP
    Tries new things
  • Closeness

    Same
    ESFP
    Stays close
    INFP
    Stays close
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ESFP
    Goes with the moment
    INFP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Closeness

The Sunny Sidekick · A cheerful nudge
ESFP · Stays close A cheerful nudge

It brushes its whole side along your leg in passing, then turns back to do it again.

The Curtain Explorer · A loop, then back to you
INFP · Stays close A loop, then back to you

After a wander it loops back to you and presses its cheek into your hand.

They may want the same lap. Sit where there is room on both sides, give each cat some time with you on its own, and pause the petting now and then so either one can leave.

Daily rhythm

The Sunny Sidekick · A sunny nap next to someone
ESFP · Goes with the moment A sunny nap next to someone

It falls asleep on the big cushion next to whoever is on the sofa, at no particular time of day.

The Curtain Explorer · Dozing on the soft rug
INFP · Goes with the moment Dozing on the soft rug

It dozes off on the round rug when it gets sleepy, whatever the clock says.

Play may start at any hour, and one cat’s burst of energy may land in the middle of the other’s nap. Keep food, water, litter and resting places steady even when the day is not, and set up a nap spot away from where they play.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Social style

The Sunny Sidekick · Joining in
ESFP · Joins in Joining in

It sees you sit down on the floor and comes straight over, tail up.

The Curtain Explorer · Behind the curtain
INFP · Prefers quiet Behind the curtain

It watches the trees from behind the curtain, where nobody walks past.

Their days may cross only now and then, and that is fine. Keep a resting place the quieter cat can reach without passing through the busy part of the home, and let the more social one come to you for company.

New experiences

The Sunny Sidekick · Play now?
ESFP · Likes the familiar Play now?

The familiar ball is all it needs: it stretches out a paw and the game has started.

The Curtain Explorer · Playing in the paper
INFP · Tries new things Playing in the paper

A sheet of packing paper is today’s find: it steps in, listens to the rustle and tries another fold.

A new toy may interest only one of them. Bring new things in without taking the old ones away, and let the more cautious cat watch from a distance for as long as it likes.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works