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ESFP · ESTP cat types The Sunny Sidekick and The Drop-In Player

They differ on 1 of 4 dimensions.

ESFPThe Sunny Sidekick

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

Whoever is home, it heads for them, rubs against them and rolls onto its side. Any time is a good time for a familiar toy, and when it tires it sleeps in the sun next to someone. There is no telling when it will come looking for you.

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ESTPThe Drop-In Player

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Goes with the moment

Any commotion at home brings it over to look. Wiggle its familiar old toy and it is playing at once; when it has had enough, it turns and leaves, flopping down somewhere nearby. It does not care much for being held, and its hours are hard to predict.

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Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    ESFP
    Joins in
    ESTP
    Joins in
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESFP
    Likes the familiar
    ESTP
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Different
    ESFP
    Stays close
    ESTP
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ESFP
    Goes with the moment
    ESTP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Sunny Sidekick · Joining in
ESFP · Joins in Joining in

It sees you sit down on the floor and comes straight over, tail up.

The Drop-In Player · Coming to see what’s going on
ESTP · Joins in Coming to see what’s going on

You open the toy basket and it is beside you before the lid is off, to see what comes out.

They may turn up in the same room, or at the same door, at the same moment. Offer more than one place to settle near you, such as two perches or two spots on the sofa, so neither has to wait for the other to move.

New experiences

The Sunny Sidekick · Play now?
ESFP · Likes the familiar Play now?

The familiar ball is all it needs: it stretches out a paw and the game has started.

The Drop-In Player · The old toy, a sudden game
ESTP · Likes the familiar The old toy, a sudden game

The old ball rolls and it pounces from a standing start, as if seeing it for the first time.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Daily rhythm

The Sunny Sidekick · A sunny nap next to someone
ESFP · Goes with the moment A sunny nap next to someone

It falls asleep on the big cushion next to whoever is on the sofa, at no particular time of day.

The Drop-In Player · Resting where the game ended
ESTP · Goes with the moment Resting where the game ended

When the game ends it lies down right there on the rug, one paw still on the ball.

Play may start at any hour, and one cat’s burst of energy may land in the middle of the other’s nap. Keep food, water, litter and resting places steady even when the day is not, and set up a nap spot away from where they play.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Closeness

The Sunny Sidekick · A cheerful nudge
ESFP · Stays close A cheerful nudge

It brushes its whole side along your leg in passing, then turns back to do it again.

The Drop-In Player · Front row, at a slight distance
ESTP · Keeps some space Front row, at a slight distance

It sits in a low box at your feet: in the front row for whatever is going on, but not on your lap.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

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This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works