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ESFP · ISTP cat types The Sunny Sidekick and The Solo Player

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ESFPThe Sunny Sidekick

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

Whoever is home, it heads for them, rubs against them and rolls onto its side. Any time is a good time for a familiar toy, and when it tires it sleeps in the sun next to someone. There is no telling when it will come looking for you.

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ISTPThe Solo Player

Prefers quiet · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Goes with the moment

It spends most of its time on its own and can bat an old toy around the familiar rug for ages. When you are in the room, it watches from a stool and rarely comes over. There is no set time for play or sleep.

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Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Different
    ESFP
    Joins in
    ISTP
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESFP
    Likes the familiar
    ISTP
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Different
    ESFP
    Stays close
    ISTP
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ESFP
    Goes with the moment
    ISTP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

New experiences

The Sunny Sidekick · Play now?
ESFP · Likes the familiar Play now?

The familiar ball is all it needs: it stretches out a paw and the game has started.

The Solo Player · A solo game on the rug
ISTP · Likes the familiar A solo game on the rug

It crouches on the rug and bats the same old ball back and forth, with nobody watching.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Daily rhythm

The Sunny Sidekick · A sunny nap next to someone
ESFP · Goes with the moment A sunny nap next to someone

It falls asleep on the big cushion next to whoever is on the sofa, at no particular time of day.

The Solo Player · A nap between games
ISTP · Goes with the moment A nap between games

Between games it stretches out on the floor cushion and sleeps, the tunnel still set up behind it.

Play may start at any hour, and one cat’s burst of energy may land in the middle of the other’s nap. Keep food, water, litter and resting places steady even when the day is not, and set up a nap spot away from where they play.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Social style

The Sunny Sidekick · Joining in
ESFP · Joins in Joining in

It sees you sit down on the floor and comes straight over, tail up.

The Solo Player · A quiet lap of the room
ISTP · Prefers quiet A quiet lap of the room

It makes a quiet lap of the empty living room and stops to inspect a patch of sun on the floor.

Their days may cross only now and then, and that is fine. Keep a resting place the quieter cat can reach without passing through the busy part of the home, and let the more social one come to you for company.

Closeness

The Sunny Sidekick · A cheerful nudge
ESFP · Stays close A cheerful nudge

It brushes its whole side along your leg in passing, then turns back to do it again.

The Solo Player · Watching from the stool
ISTP · Keeps some space Watching from the stool

It sits on the stool by the sofa while you rest, looking out over the room, a comfortable gap in between.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works