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ESFP · ESTJ cat types The Sunny Sidekick and The Hallway Patrol

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ESFPThe Sunny Sidekick

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

Whoever is home, it heads for them, rubs against them and rolls onto its side. Any time is a good time for a familiar toy, and when it tires it sleeps in the sun next to someone. There is no telling when it will come looking for you.

Read the type guide · ESFP

ESTJThe Hallway Patrol

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Regular hours

In the morning it makes a round of the house to see what everyone is doing. It likes being near people but has its own seat and would rather not be held. It wants the old toy, and if dinner is late it comes to tell you.

Read the type guide · ESTJ

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    ESFP
    Joins in
    ESTJ
    Joins in
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESFP
    Likes the familiar
    ESTJ
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Different
    ESFP
    Stays close
    ESTJ
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Different
    ESFP
    Goes with the moment
    ESTJ
    Regular hours

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Sunny Sidekick · Joining in
ESFP · Joins in Joining in

It sees you sit down on the floor and comes straight over, tail up.

The Hallway Patrol · Checking on the household
ESTJ · Joins in Checking on the household

You start tidying the shelf and it comes to stand beside you, checking where everything goes.

They may turn up in the same room, or at the same door, at the same moment. Offer more than one place to settle near you, such as two perches or two spots on the sofa, so neither has to wait for the other to move.

New experiences

The Sunny Sidekick · Play now?
ESFP · Likes the familiar Play now?

The familiar ball is all it needs: it stretches out a paw and the game has started.

The Hallway Patrol · Waiting at the usual play spot
ESTJ · Likes the familiar Waiting at the usual play spot

It sits by the ball track it has always used and waits for you to start the usual round.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Closeness

The Sunny Sidekick · A cheerful nudge
ESFP · Stays close A cheerful nudge

It brushes its whole side along your leg in passing, then turns back to do it again.

The Hallway Patrol · Together, on separate seats
ESTJ · Keeps some space Together, on separate seats

It takes the stool next to your chair, facing the same way as you, without leaning in.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Daily rhythm

The Sunny Sidekick · A sunny nap next to someone
ESFP · Goes with the moment A sunny nap next to someone

It falls asleep on the big cushion next to whoever is on the sofa, at no particular time of day.

The Hallway Patrol · Its spot at the end of the hallway
ESTJ · Regular hours Its spot at the end of the hallway

At night it is in the basket at the end of the hallway, right on time.

One cat’s playtime may be the other’s nap. Keep the routine steady for the cat that relies on it, and offer the other a short game somewhere else when it gets going at an odd hour.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works