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ESTP · ISFP cat types The Drop-In Player and The Corner Napper

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ESTPThe Drop-In Player

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Goes with the moment

Any commotion at home brings it over to look. Wiggle its familiar old toy and it is playing at once; when it has had enough, it turns and leaves, flopping down somewhere nearby. It does not care much for being held, and its hours are hard to predict.

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ISFPThe Corner Napper

Prefers quiet · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Goes with the moment

It likes to curl up somewhere quiet, most often on one well-worn blanket. When it wants company, it comes over and leans against you on its own. How long it stays and when it plays are hard to predict.

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Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Different
    ESTP
    Joins in
    ISFP
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESTP
    Likes the familiar
    ISFP
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Different
    ESTP
    Keeps some space
    ISFP
    Stays close
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ESTP
    Goes with the moment
    ISFP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

New experiences

The Drop-In Player · The old toy, a sudden game
ESTP · Likes the familiar The old toy, a sudden game

The old ball rolls and it pounces from a standing start, as if seeing it for the first time.

The Corner Napper · A short game when it feels like it
ISFP · Likes the familiar A short game when it feels like it

Play means reaching one paw from the usual blanket to tap the usual ball.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Daily rhythm

The Drop-In Player · Resting where the game ended
ESTP · Goes with the moment Resting where the game ended

When the game ends it lies down right there on the rug, one paw still on the ball.

The Corner Napper · The favorite blanket, all day
ISFP · Goes with the moment The favorite blanket, all day

It naps on the blanket on the bench when it gets sleepy: mid-morning today, perhaps late afternoon tomorrow.

Play may start at any hour, and one cat’s burst of energy may land in the middle of the other’s nap. Keep food, water, litter and resting places steady even when the day is not, and set up a nap spot away from where they play.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Social style

The Drop-In Player · Coming to see what’s going on
ESTP · Joins in Coming to see what’s going on

You open the toy basket and it is beside you before the lid is off, to see what comes out.

The Corner Napper · A familiar corner in soft light
ISFP · Prefers quiet A familiar corner in soft light

It settles on its blanket by the window and watches leaf shadows move in a quiet room.

Their days may cross only now and then, and that is fine. Keep a resting place the quieter cat can reach without passing through the busy part of the home, and let the more social one come to you for company.

Closeness

The Drop-In Player · Front row, at a slight distance
ESTP · Keeps some space Front row, at a slight distance

It sits in a low box at your feet: in the front row for whatever is going on, but not on your lap.

The Corner Napper · Leaning in when it wants to
ISFP · Stays close Leaning in when it wants to

When it wants company it walks over and rests its head against your hand.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works