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ESTP · ISTJ cat types The Drop-In Player and The Same-Spot Regular

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ESTPThe Drop-In Player

Joins in · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Goes with the moment

Any commotion at home brings it over to look. Wiggle its familiar old toy and it is playing at once; when it has had enough, it turns and leaves, flopping down somewhere nearby. It does not care much for being held, and its hours are hard to predict.

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ISTJThe Same-Spot Regular

Prefers quiet · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Regular hours

It naps on the same level of the cat tree and keeps choosing the same old toy. It comes out at about the same times each day, and when it has had enough company it goes back to a quiet spot on its own. It does not need someone beside it all the time.

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Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Different
    ESTP
    Joins in
    ISTJ
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    ESTP
    Likes the familiar
    ISTJ
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Same
    ESTP
    Keeps some space
    ISTJ
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Different
    ESTP
    Goes with the moment
    ISTJ
    Regular hours

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

New experiences

The Drop-In Player · The old toy, a sudden game
ESTP · Likes the familiar The old toy, a sudden game

The old ball rolls and it pounces from a standing start, as if seeing it for the first time.

The Same-Spot Regular · The same old favorite toy
ISTJ · Likes the familiar The same old favorite toy

It walks past the newer toys to bat the worn cloth mouse on its usual mat.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Closeness

The Drop-In Player · Front row, at a slight distance
ESTP · Keeps some space Front row, at a slight distance

It sits in a low box at your feet: in the front row for whatever is going on, but not on your lap.

The Same-Spot Regular · Nearby, on its own seat
ISTJ · Keeps some space Nearby, on its own seat

It keeps you company from its own stool beside your armchair, with a clear gap between you.

Each may want a seat of its own instead of a shared one. Separate perches within sight of each other let them be in the same room without touching.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Social style

The Drop-In Player · Coming to see what’s going on
ESTP · Joins in Coming to see what’s going on

You open the toy basket and it is beside you before the lid is off, to see what comes out.

The Same-Spot Regular · The usual window perch
ISTJ · Prefers quiet The usual window perch

Mornings find it on the same window seat, by itself, looking out.

Their days may cross only now and then, and that is fine. Keep a resting place the quieter cat can reach without passing through the busy part of the home, and let the more social one come to you for company.

Daily rhythm

The Drop-In Player · Resting where the game ended
ESTP · Goes with the moment Resting where the game ended

When the game ends it lies down right there on the rug, one paw still on the ball.

The Same-Spot Regular · The same bed every night
ISTJ · Regular hours The same bed every night

Evening means the same bed, the same blanket and nearly the same hour.

One cat’s playtime may be the other’s nap. Keep the routine steady for the cat that relies on it, and offer the other a short game somewhere else when it gets going at an odd hour.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works