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ISFJ · ISTP cat types The Blanket Buddy and The Solo Player

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ISFJThe Blanket Buddy

Prefers quiet · Likes the familiar · Stays close · Regular hours

In the evening, when you sit in your usual seat, it comes over and lies down against you. It hangs back when there are many people but likes to stay close to the ones it knows. Where and when it rests hardly changes.

Read the type guide · ISFJ

ISTPThe Solo Player

Prefers quiet · Likes the familiar · Keeps some space · Goes with the moment

It spends most of its time on its own and can bat an old toy around the familiar rug for ages. When you are in the room, it watches from a stool and rarely comes over. There is no set time for play or sleep.

Read the type guide · ISTP

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    ISFJ
    Prefers quiet
    ISTP
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    ISFJ
    Likes the familiar
    ISTP
    Likes the familiar
  • Closeness

    Different
    ISFJ
    Stays close
    ISTP
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Different
    ISFJ
    Regular hours
    ISTP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Blanket Buddy · Watching the evening from the usual spot
ISFJ · Prefers quiet Watching the evening from the usual spot

It skips the busy rooms and sits beside you on the sofa while you fold the blanket.

The Solo Player · A quiet lap of the room
ISTP · Prefers quiet A quiet lap of the room

It makes a quiet lap of the empty living room and stops to inspect a patch of sun on the floor.

They may choose the same quiet spot. Offer several quiet resting places, in different rooms or at different heights, so each can be alone without having to guard a favorite corner.

New experiences

The Blanket Buddy · The game you always play
ISFJ · Likes the familiar The game you always play

The cloth ball it has always played with still wins, all the more with your hand nearby.

The Solo Player · A solo game on the rug
ISTP · Likes the familiar A solo game on the rug

It crouches on the rug and bats the same old ball back and forth, with nobody watching.

A new cat, new furniture or a new smell is a big change for either of them. Change one thing at a time, and keep each cat’s own bed, blanket and favorite toy where they have always been.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Closeness

The Blanket Buddy · A cheek against a familiar hand
ISFJ · Stays close A cheek against a familiar hand

It leans its cheek into your hand and keeps it there for as long as you stay still.

The Solo Player · Watching from the stool
ISTP · Keeps some space Watching from the stool

It sits on the stool by the sofa while you rest, looking out over the room, a comfortable gap in between.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Daily rhythm

The Blanket Buddy · The blanket beside your chair
ISFJ · Regular hours The blanket beside your chair

It sleeps on the folded blanket beside your reading chair, in the same place each night.

The Solo Player · A nap between games
ISTP · Goes with the moment A nap between games

Between games it stretches out on the floor cushion and sleeps, the tunnel still set up behind it.

One cat’s playtime may be the other’s nap. Keep the routine steady for the cat that relies on it, and offer the other a short game somewhere else when it gets going at an odd hour.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works