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ENTJ · INFJ cat types The Parcel Supervisor and The Quiet Sitter

They differ on 2 of 4 dimensions.

ENTJThe Parcel Supervisor

Joins in · Tries new things · Keeps some space · Regular hours

When a parcel arrives, it is the first to inspect it and stays until the box is open. It likes being in the room where people are, but not being picked up. Around the same time each day it reminds you about dinner, then waits for the usual wand-toy game.

Read the type guide · ENTJ

INFJThe Quiet Sitter

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Stays close · Regular hours

It keeps away when the house is busy. Once things quiet down, it jumps onto the arm of the sofa and sits beside you. It walks over slowly to look at a new toy, plays for a while, then comes back. Most evenings it shows up at that spot around the same time.

Read the type guide · INFJ

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Different
    ENTJ
    Joins in
    INFJ
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    ENTJ
    Tries new things
    INFJ
    Tries new things
  • Closeness

    Different
    ENTJ
    Keeps some space
    INFJ
    Stays close
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    ENTJ
    Regular hours
    INFJ
    Regular hours

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

New experiences

The Parcel Supervisor · Time for the usual game
ENTJ · Tries new things Time for the usual game

It inspected the ball track the day you brought it home, as it does anything new, and now sits by the track waiting for you to start a game.

The Quiet Sitter · Taking a new toy slowly
INFJ · Tries new things Taking a new toy slowly

A new toy is sniffed slowly from one end to the other before the first careful pat.

They may reach a new box, bag or toy at the same time. Put out two boxes instead of one and rotate the toys, so neither has to wait its turn to look.

Daily rhythm

The Parcel Supervisor · Back to a favorite spot
ENTJ · Regular hours Back to a favorite spot

The day ends in the basket at the end of the hallway, the same one as every night.

The Quiet Sitter · The evening blanket
INFJ · Regular hours The evening blanket

Every evening it curls up on the same folded blanket at the end of the sofa.

Meals, play and naps may fall at the same times for both. Feed them at set times in separate places, so a shared routine does not turn into a contest over one bowl.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Social style

The Parcel Supervisor · Checking the new arrival
ENTJ · Joins in Checking the new arrival

You set down a new scratching post and it has started the inspection before your hands have left the base.

The Quiet Sitter · A quiet seat by the window
INFJ · Prefers quiet A quiet seat by the window

Its favorite company is one quiet person: it sits at the window while you read, a cushion between you.

Their days may cross only now and then, and that is fine. Keep a resting place the quieter cat can reach without passing through the busy part of the home, and let the more social one come to you for company.

Closeness

The Parcel Supervisor · Where the household is
ENTJ · Keeps some space Where the household is

While you fold the laundry it sits on its own mat a few steps away and watches, without leaning in.

The Quiet Sitter · Sitting by the reader
INFJ · Stays close Sitting by the reader

Once you settle with a book, it rests its cheek and one paw on your arm and stays there.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works