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INFJ · INTJ cat types The Quiet Sitter and The Window Watcher

They differ on 1 of 4 dimensions.

INFJThe Quiet Sitter

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Stays close · Regular hours

It keeps away when the house is busy. Once things quiet down, it jumps onto the arm of the sofa and sits beside you. It walks over slowly to look at a new toy, plays for a while, then comes back. Most evenings it shows up at that spot around the same time.

Read the type guide · INFJ

INTJThe Window Watcher

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Keeps some space · Regular hours

Usually watches the house from a high, quiet spot. When something new appears, it comes down to sniff it and circle it once, then goes back to its usual place. Meals and naps happen at about the same times, and it rarely needs someone right beside it.

Read the type guide · INTJ

Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    INFJ
    Prefers quiet
    INTJ
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    INFJ
    Tries new things
    INTJ
    Tries new things
  • Closeness

    Different
    INFJ
    Stays close
    INTJ
    Keeps some space
  • Daily rhythm

    Same
    INFJ
    Regular hours
    INTJ
    Regular hours

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Quiet Sitter · A quiet seat by the window
INFJ · Prefers quiet A quiet seat by the window

Its favorite company is one quiet person: it sits at the window while you read, a cushion between you.

The Window Watcher · Rain at the window
INTJ · Prefers quiet Rain at the window

On a rainy afternoon it takes the windowsill by itself and watches the drops run down the glass.

They may choose the same quiet spot. Offer several quiet resting places, in different rooms or at different heights, so each can be alone without having to guard a favorite corner.

New experiences

The Quiet Sitter · Taking a new toy slowly
INFJ · Tries new things Taking a new toy slowly

A new toy is sniffed slowly from one end to the other before the first careful pat.

The Window Watcher · Working out a puzzle toy
INTJ · Tries new things Working out a puzzle toy

It tries a new puzzle tray one careful paw at a time until it has worked out which piece moves.

They may reach a new box, bag or toy at the same time. Put out two boxes instead of one and rotate the toys, so neither has to wait its turn to look.

Daily rhythm

The Quiet Sitter · The evening blanket
INFJ · Regular hours The evening blanket

Every evening it curls up on the same folded blanket at the end of the sofa.

The Window Watcher · The usual bedtime nook
INTJ · Regular hours The usual bedtime nook

At dusk it is back in the same bed under the bookshelf, at much the same time as yesterday.

Meals, play and naps may fall at the same times for both. Feed them at set times in separate places, so a shared routine does not turn into a contest over one bowl.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Closeness

The Quiet Sitter · Sitting by the reader
INFJ · Stays close Sitting by the reader

Once you settle with a book, it rests its cheek and one paw on your arm and stays there.

The Window Watcher · Nearby, with some space
INTJ · Keeps some space Nearby, with some space

During your reading hour it sits on its own cushion a step away, near you without asking to be held.

Closeness that one cat offers, the other may not want. Watch whether the cat being approached stays, moves away or turns its head, and make sure it always has a way out.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works