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INFJ · INFP cat types The Quiet Sitter and The Curtain Explorer

They differ on 1 of 4 dimensions.

INFJThe Quiet Sitter

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Stays close · Regular hours

It keeps away when the house is busy. Once things quiet down, it jumps onto the arm of the sofa and sits beside you. It walks over slowly to look at a new toy, plays for a while, then comes back. Most evenings it shows up at that spot around the same time.

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INFPThe Curtain Explorer

Prefers quiet · Tries new things · Stays close · Goes with the moment

It often hides behind the curtain and pops out when a paper bag rustles. After playing, it loops back to your legs, rubs against you once and wanders off again. When it sleeps and when it plays depends on the day.

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Four dimensions, side by side

  • Social style

    Same
    INFJ
    Prefers quiet
    INFP
    Prefers quiet
  • New experiences

    Same
    INFJ
    Tries new things
    INFP
    Tries new things
  • Closeness

    Same
    INFJ
    Stays close
    INFP
    Stays close
  • Daily rhythm

    Different
    INFJ
    Regular hours
    INFP
    Goes with the moment

Where their days may overlap

On these dimensions the two type descriptions lean the same way. Similar habits can mean easy company, and also wanting the same spot at the same time.

Social style

The Quiet Sitter · A quiet seat by the window
INFJ · Prefers quiet A quiet seat by the window

Its favorite company is one quiet person: it sits at the window while you read, a cushion between you.

The Curtain Explorer · Behind the curtain
INFP · Prefers quiet Behind the curtain

It watches the trees from behind the curtain, where nobody walks past.

They may choose the same quiet spot. Offer several quiet resting places, in different rooms or at different heights, so each can be alone without having to guard a favorite corner.

New experiences

The Quiet Sitter · Taking a new toy slowly
INFJ · Tries new things Taking a new toy slowly

A new toy is sniffed slowly from one end to the other before the first careful pat.

The Curtain Explorer · Playing in the paper
INFP · Tries new things Playing in the paper

A sheet of packing paper is today’s find: it steps in, listens to the rustle and tries another fold.

They may reach a new box, bag or toy at the same time. Put out two boxes instead of one and rotate the toys, so neither has to wait its turn to look.

Closeness

The Quiet Sitter · Sitting by the reader
INFJ · Stays close Sitting by the reader

Once you settle with a book, it rests its cheek and one paw on your arm and stays there.

The Curtain Explorer · A loop, then back to you
INFP · Stays close A loop, then back to you

After a wander it loops back to you and presses its cheek into your hand.

They may want the same lap. Sit where there is room on both sides, give each cat some time with you on its own, and pause the petting now and then so either one can leave.

Where each may want its own space

On these dimensions the descriptions lean in opposite directions. A difference is not a problem; it shows where each cat may need a choice of its own.

Daily rhythm

The Quiet Sitter · The evening blanket
INFJ · Regular hours The evening blanket

Every evening it curls up on the same folded blanket at the end of the sofa.

The Curtain Explorer · Dozing on the soft rug
INFP · Goes with the moment Dozing on the soft rug

It dozes off on the round rug when it gets sleepy, whatever the clock says.

One cat’s playtime may be the other’s nap. Keep the routine steady for the cat that relies on it, and offer the other a short game somewhere else when it gets going at an odd hour.

Introducing two cats

These steps are the same for any two cats, whatever their types. Go at the pace of the less comfortable cat.

  1. Give the newcomer a separate room with its own food, water, litter, hiding place and bed.
  2. When both cats are relaxed, swap bedding or other items that carry their scent.
  3. Let them see each other briefly through a secure barrier, then move on to short, supervised meetings.
  4. If either cat tenses up, go back a step and give them time apart.
Read the step-by-step introduction guide

More pairings

This compares type descriptions for fun. How two cats actually get along depends on each cat and their home. How it works